Two amazing clients today, living with experiences which are almost unimaginable. One has reminded me that abuse takes many different forms. It cannot always be detected by bruises on the outside. Psychological abuse shows no outward signs but can be equally if not more damaging. It works in the same way, leading the abused person to lose all belief in themselves, their self worth and likability.
If you are being abused or know someone who you suspect is the victim of either physical domestic violence or psychological abuse, I have found that the police can be very understanding and helpful, certainly in my area. They will be able to make referrals to appropriate agencies locally, certainly in the UK, who can give advice and practical help.

No matter what we may have done, we all deserve to be listened to and treated with respect.